Disclaimer: This is not an opinion piece. This is not judgment. This is an urgent spiritual message.
Today, I found myself broken open by a story—a story that pulled at the very fibers of my soul and left me sobbing, not from judgment, but from a deep spiritual ache. It was about a young woman who had chosen, with intent, to have sexual intercourse with one hundred men in a single day. Not only that, but on a stage, with an audience.
This was not just a headline or the fleeting spectacle of a “trending topic” (which could be another post entirely); it was a reflection of something far deeper—something desperate, wounded, and profoundly human. The story became unbearable to witness not because of her actions alone, but because of the emotional and spiritual torment that followed. In a documentary clip attached to the article, she wept uncontrollably, and her sobs reached beyond my ears. They settled into my spirit.
It wasn’t her tears alone that moved me—it was the profound disgust and fear she seemed to feel toward her own choices. This energy was so loud, so palpable, that I could sense it in my own body as though it were my own pain. Perhaps it touched a part of me—a part wounded by my own sexual trauma—but what poured forth from me in that moment was not just my pain or hers. It was something deeper: a spiritual warning, a call, a plea.
This is not a message shared from any religious or even psychological foundation, belief, or teaching. It is an urgent spiritual message—a call for awareness of the sacredness of sexual energy.
The Power of Sexual Energy
Sexual energy is one of the most sacred forces within us. It is the essence of creation itself, a divine gift that connects us to the infinite and to one another in ways that transcend the physical. It is not simply about pleasure or gratification; it is not merely about flesh. It is about union, about connection, about reverence for the divine spark within ourselves and within others.
When we misuse this energy, when we trivialize it or treat it as a commodity, the consequences are not merely physical. They ripple out into the emotional, mental, and spiritual realms, leaving wounds that can take lifetimes to heal. This is not about shame—it is about truth.
The act of sharing sexual energy with another person creates a bond, an exchange, a spiritual tie. In some traditions, it is believed that pieces of your soul are left with each person you connect with in this way. Whether or not you subscribe to this belief, the reality is that sexual energy is not casual. It cannot be treated as such without repercussions.
The Consequences of Recklessness
When we disregard the sacredness of sexual energy, we invite chaos—within ourselves and in the world around us. This young woman’s experience is not unique. It is a reflection of a “hook up” culture that has increasingly disconnected from the spiritual truths of intimacy and sexuality.
We live in a world that often values attention over connection, instant gratification over depth, and surface-level experiences over spiritual awareness. In such a world, it is all too easy to lose sight of the profound responsibility that comes with sharing our bodies, our energy, our souls.
This is not a condemnation of this young woman. My heart aches for her because her pain is evident, and her story is one of so many others. It is a reminder that our choices—especially those involving our most sacred energies—have consequences that cannot be ignored.
A Call to Awareness
I am sharing this because I care deeply about the spiritual well-being of everyone reading these words. This is not about morality or personal opinion, or even the consequences I or this blog may face by sharing it; it is about recognizing the sacred and honoring it.
To those who might condone or applaud this young woman’s actions as an expression of freedom or empowerment, I urge you to pause, and consider the following message that echoed in my spirit as I sat with the silence accompanying the end of the article I read and video I watched:
Freedom does not come from recklessness; it comes from alignment with truth. Empowerment does not come from giving away your energy to anyone and everyone; it comes from honoring your sacredness and choosing wisely.
To those who have made similar choices and feel the weight of regret or of the consequences of similar actions, know that you are not beyond healing. The path to wholeness is always available, but it begins with awareness and a willingness to reclaim, cleanse and honor your sacred energy.
A Message from Spirit
This post is not about shame. It is about love—love for the divine within you, love for the sacredness of what you carry, and love for the world that so desperately needs to remember its connection to spirit.
If you take nothing else from this message, take this: Your sexual energy is a gift. Treat it with the reverence it deserves. When you honor it, you honor yourself, and you honor the divine.
Let this be a reminder, not just for those who read it, but for all of us, myself included, to approach our choices with awareness and care. The wounds caused by misuse of sacred energy can heal, but prevention is always better than repair.
To the young woman whose story broke my heart: I see you. I feel your pain. And I pray that you find healing, peace, and a renewed sense of your own worth.
To everyone reading this: Let us remember that we are not just physical beings. We are spiritual beings, and our choices matter. Let us treat our energy—our very souls, and those of others—with the care and respect they deserve.
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