Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self — Living from the Source

Living from the Source means the center of gravity has shifted. The primary question is no longer “How much am I getting back?” The deeper question becomes “What is God giving me to carry and to offer, and how do I steward it wisely?”

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self — Why I Left the Field

I did not leave the field of psychology because I stopped believing it had value. I left because I could no longer pretend the map was complete. A framework that begins and ends with the human person will eventually struggle to make room for a Source beyond the person.

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self — Pearls, Swine, and the Ongoing Yes

The command not to cast pearls before swine is a real warning. But it is a call to wisdom about how we give, not a release from the call to keep loving. There is a difference between guarding what is holy and refusing to let love move through us at all.

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self — What Healthy Love Actually Is

Most of the confusion around boundaries, self-awareness, and “too much” love does not start with those topics themselves. It starts with the fact that many people no longer have a clear understanding of what love actually is – psychologically, philosophically, or biblically.

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self — Self-Awareness as Refined Selfishness

What often passes for self-awareness today is less about honest examination before God and more about the skilled protection of the emotional self. The language sounds wise. The fruit is often a quieter, more sophisticated form of selfishness.

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self – The Incomplete Map

Psychology has given us a clear map for pouring from an empty self. What it cannot chart is the possibility that the pouring might not be coming from the self at all.

Science vs Spirituality | Beyond the Psychological Self – The Self is not the Source

Psychology has a clear map for pouring from an empty self. But what if the pouring is not coming from the self at all? What if it is coming from Him – and He always replenishes?

Unhooked: What God Is Actually Doing When He Teaches You to Let Go | The Author’s Perspective

There is a particular kind of tired that doesn’t come from overwork. It is the exhaustion of holding on to something God has already released from His hand. What we typically call attachment, when it becomes disordered, is not love at all. It is fear wearing love’s clothing, and God, in His mercy, does not preserve the versions of us built on fear. He dismantles them. If you are in that season, this post is for you.