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Category Archives: Psychology
Authenticity Unveiled | The Dark Night of the Soul
There is a season that most people who have walked any serious spiritual or personal journey will recognize the moment you name it. It does not announce itself. It does not come with a warning label or a timeline or a clear explanation. It simply arrives — and what it brings with it is a kind of interior darkness that is unlike ordinary sadness, unlike depression as most people understand it, unlike grief in the conventional sense. It is a darkness that feels specifically targeted. As though whatever light you had been navigating by has simply gone out. If you have been there, you know exactly what I am describing. If you have not, I hope this gives you a map for when you do.
When Grief Compounds: Layers, Love, and the Family Left Behind
A reader asked if I would write more about grief. What unfolded over the course of our private exchanges was one of the most layered grief stories I have encountered – not because her experience is unusual, but because it is far more common than anyone talks about. This post is for her. And I suspect it is for more of you than any one of us might realize.
Science and Spirituality | Body and Mind: Let the Tide Come In
Most of us were only ever taught to manage things. To perform okay. To say “I’m fine” on autopilot until we actually believed it, or at least stopped questioning it. But the body keeps an honest record of everything our mouths agreed to leave behind…
The psychological and the spiritual aren’t competing systems. Together they create a full circuit, either feeding or starving us. The longest-process things on the list of human emotions aren’t longer because they’re more powerful. They’re longer because someone kept interrupting the process.
Eventually, we have to allow the tide to come in.
Sunday Sessions | You’re Not Overthinking: Discernment, Pattern Recognition, and the Mantle You Carry
The world has a word for people who see too much. Overthinker. Anxious. Too sensitive. But somewhere along the way, a lot of us learned to second-guess the very thing God was sharpening in us. The “problem” is pattern recognition, and it’s only a problem for people who don’t have any skill in it. Discernment is pattern recognition under anointing. And the weight you’ve been feeling? That’s not a crisis. Scripture calls it a mantle. God does not press people He does not intend to use.
The Battle Within, The Rest Beyond | Spiritual Foundations for Healing
Healing is hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child, who is scared and just wants safety; your inner teenager, who is angry and just wants justice; and your current self, who is tired and just wants peace. In my experience, the only true solution to that battle is to surrender it to God and allow Him to work in your life, on His terms and in His time.
Science & Spirituality | Surrender Is Not Powerlessness: What Your Brain and Your Bible Both Know About Anger
Being pissed off feels powerful. But psychologically and spiritually, it’s a trap. Here’s what your brain and your Bible both know about anger, resentment, and why surrender is the most powerful thing you can do.
Jane Fonda’s Wounds Drive Her Activism. What Drives Yours? | Daily Bread
It has come to my attention that many in the younger generations are confused about Jane Fonda’s recent statements on the Iran strikes. They’re not asking hard questions. They’re following and supporting them blindly. From the crow’s nest, I’d like to sound a warning: that’s a mistake. If you’d like to see things from thatContinueContinue reading “Jane Fonda’s Wounds Drive Her Activism. What Drives Yours? | Daily Bread”
Dear Christians | It’s Not About A Building.
It is not about what you do in a building. It is holiness in secret, not performance in public. It’s about who you are when no one is watching.
The Psychology of Political Conviction: Why Facts Often Fail to Change Minds
It’s been quite a while since I’ve shared a psychology-related write-up. Recently, I saw a clip of liberal commentary that prompted a realization: even many otherwise balanced, reasonable people don’t fully understand what’s happening in the psyches of those on the radical ends of the political spectrum. And this phenomenon is not confined to oneContinueContinue reading “The Psychology of Political Conviction: Why Facts Often Fail to Change Minds”
When Compromise Becomes Complicity: Why Speaking Truth Is No Longer Optional
I saw a post recently about Susan Rice advocating for reeducation camps for those who haven’t adopted her worldview. Why this approach? Because persuasion has failed. When you can’t convince people through reason or evidence, the next step becomes force. This reveals something crucial about the current moment: we are witnessing the breakdown of sharedContinueContinue reading “When Compromise Becomes Complicity: Why Speaking Truth Is No Longer Optional”
Authenticity Unveiled | The Moral and Psychological Breakdown in Radical Left Ideology
I continue to notice an alarming contradiction playing out over and over again. In this post, I attempt to examine that contradiction, and peel apart its layers. A Contradiction in Moral Focus It was the recent release of more detailed Epstein files that led me to a full conscious awareness of the contradiction in moralContinueContinue reading “Authenticity Unveiled | The Moral and Psychological Breakdown in Radical Left Ideology”
Diagnostic Fatigue and Upstream Witness: Living Inside the Diagnosis
For months, I’ve continued sitting in what I can only describe as diagnostic fatigue. Not the fatigue of uncertainty, but the fatigue that comes from clarity that never seems to land. The exhaustion of repeatedly recognizing the same patterns, naming the same distortions, and watching people respond not with reflection, but with reflex. My lastContinueContinue reading “Diagnostic Fatigue and Upstream Witness: Living Inside the Diagnosis”
The Retardation of Reason
For months, I’ve been struggling with diagnostic fatigue when it comes to this blog. I realized long ago that I speak from upstream of a culture that has deliberately moved downstream and dammed itself there. Only recently did it fully land that this does not render the work pointless. It simply means the audience wasContinueContinue reading “The Retardation of Reason”
The Shape of Escape: A Testimony of Climbing Out of What Almost Kept Me
There’s a term from developmental biology that stuck with me the first time I heard it: chreode. It describes a kind of groove—a well-worn path of least resistance that cells tend to follow during development. Once they start down that track, the path becomes harder to exit. It shapes them. Defines them. Holds them inContinueContinue reading “The Shape of Escape: A Testimony of Climbing Out of What Almost Kept Me”
The Cost of Awareness: The Performance of Humanity and the Weight of Feeling Too Much
Earlier today, I came across yet another post online where someone was asking, “Why are so many people laughing during this?” The context was tragic—something serious had happened, and yet, the reactions captured on video were bizarrely out of sync with the gravity of the moment. People were laughing. Filming. Spectating like it was aContinueContinue reading “The Cost of Awareness: The Performance of Humanity and the Weight of Feeling Too Much”