The Measure of Wholeness

We inhabit a world in which pain often meets, and begets, pain. I grew up in a family and religious background that kept this teaching at the forefront of every lesson, constantly reminding me to be kind. That’s a lot of pressure to put on oneself, but it is not without merit. Reflecting on whatContinueContinue reading “The Measure of Wholeness”

Meeting the Me I’m Becoming in a Letter from a Friend I’ve Never Met

This morning, something remarkable happened. It was one of those rare moments when reality seems to blur with something more ethereal—something that felt like déjà vu and destiny intertwined. The kind of moment where you find yourself questioning if it’s really happening, or if it’s just a beautiful figment of a dream. It all beganContinueContinue reading “Meeting the Me I’m Becoming in a Letter from a Friend I’ve Never Met”

The Earned Wisdom of Pain: Navigating the Heartbreak of Growing Older

With age comes wisdom—or so we’re told. It’s the gift handed to us, not in exchange for time alone, but in exchange for every heartbreak, every loss, every piercing blow life deals us when we’re too tender to defend ourselves. Wisdom isn’t inherited. It isn’t handed down like heirlooms or passed along with stories overContinueContinue reading “The Earned Wisdom of Pain: Navigating the Heartbreak of Growing Older”

The Clash of Clean and Careless:  Living Mindfully in a Chaotic World

The Clash of Clean and Careless. I know I’m not alone in what this post will express, and I think it’s important to acknowledge the frustration and exhaustion that can come from feeling unheard in a shared living space. In this instance, the ongoing issue is caring versus being unbothered about living in an untidyContinueContinue reading “The Clash of Clean and Careless:  Living Mindfully in a Chaotic World”

Stoicism in a Nutshell: A (Better?) Path to Inner Strength and Resilience

As we journey through life, we often encounter chaos, adversity, and uncertainty. These challenges can easily overwhelm us, leaving us anxious, frustrated, and powerless. But what if there was a philosophy that offered a different path—a way to find peace, purpose, and resilience amid the noise? This is the essence of Stoicism. For The TwinContinueContinue reading “Stoicism in a Nutshell: A (Better?) Path to Inner Strength and Resilience”

Illusions: Letting Go of Someone Who Never Existed Yet Still Exists

When someone once meant the world to us, we often cling to an illusion of who they were. The hardest part isn’t the moving on itself; it’s coming to terms with the fact that the person we hold onto in our minds is not the same person who ultimately hurt us. The person who hurtContinueContinue reading “Illusions: Letting Go of Someone Who Never Existed Yet Still Exists”