I’m so excited to announce the release of my book, The Twin Tree Philosophy! This book is the culmination of a deeply personal journey—a philosophy born out of both profound loss and transformative growth. The Twin Tree Philosophy invites readers to find balance between resilience and vulnerability, stability and growth. It’s about living deeply rootedContinueContinue reading “I’ve Written a Book, and You Can Download It for Free!”
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The Art of Self-Reinvention: An Unexpected Journey
There was a moment in my life when I looked at the person I had become and felt a complete disconnect. On the surface, to anyone looking in from the outside, everything seemed fine—more than fine, even successful. But deep down, I knew something was off. I was out of alignment with myself. Especially afterContinueContinue reading “The Art of Self-Reinvention: An Unexpected Journey”
Rooted in Surrender: Finding Strength in the Inherent Duality of Letting Go and Holding On
Tonight, I had an inner experience that I feel it is a responsibility, my duty, in a way, to share with the Twin Tree Project blog and each of you, our readers. Despite the discomfort of reaching beyond my own vulnerability, sharing real-time reflections on my growth and healing feels like fulfilling a purpose farContinueContinue reading “Rooted in Surrender: Finding Strength in the Inherent Duality of Letting Go and Holding On”
A “Chance Encounter” with Wisdom: The Teacher Appears (Understanding the Kleshas and Finding Peace)
I recently had one of those profound spiritual experiences that feels like fate—a turning point that shifts your life forever. This time, though, I was fully conscious of it while it was happening. Meeting my new teacher, David Ji, a Zen master, came at just the right moment. As I navigate recovery from a majorContinueContinue reading “A “Chance Encounter” with Wisdom: The Teacher Appears (Understanding the Kleshas and Finding Peace)”
Embracing Solitude: The Gift of Self-Discovery
Imagine a human without friends. In the first half of my existence, I couldn’t fathom why so many older people around me preferred solitude. It was easy for a less experienced version of me to picture them as lonely or isolated, longing for connection. Society teaches us that friendships and relationships are essential for happinessContinueContinue reading “Embracing Solitude: The Gift of Self-Discovery”
Beyond the Breaking Point: Compassion Fatigue
In our last post, I wanted to encourage the empaths by acknowledging the challenges empaths face in today’s world—a world that often doesn’t prioritize or understand the immense emotional weight we carry. While our ability to feel deeply allows us to connect and uplift, it can also lead to a kind of silent burnout knownContinueContinue reading “Beyond the Breaking Point: Compassion Fatigue”
Meeting the Me I’m Becoming in a Letter from a Friend I’ve Never Met
This morning, something remarkable happened. It was one of those rare moments when reality seems to blur with something more ethereal—something that felt like déjà vu and destiny intertwined. The kind of moment where you find yourself questioning if it’s really happening, or if it’s just a beautiful figment of a dream. It all beganContinueContinue reading “Meeting the Me I’m Becoming in a Letter from a Friend I’ve Never Met”
The Earned Wisdom of Pain: Navigating the Heartbreak of Growing Older
With age comes wisdom—or so we’re told. It’s the gift handed to us, not in exchange for time alone, but in exchange for every heartbreak, every loss, every piercing blow life deals us when we’re too tender to defend ourselves. Wisdom isn’t inherited. It isn’t handed down like heirlooms or passed along with stories overContinueContinue reading “The Earned Wisdom of Pain: Navigating the Heartbreak of Growing Older”
The Clash of Clean and Careless: Living Mindfully in a Chaotic World
The Clash of Clean and Careless. I know I’m not alone in what this post will express, and I think it’s important to acknowledge the frustration and exhaustion that can come from feeling unheard in a shared living space. In this instance, the ongoing issue is caring versus being unbothered about living in an untidyContinueContinue reading “The Clash of Clean and Careless: Living Mindfully in a Chaotic World”
Illusions: Letting Go of Someone Who Never Existed Yet Still Exists
When someone once meant the world to us, we often cling to an illusion of who they were. The hardest part isn’t the moving on itself; it’s coming to terms with the fact that the person we hold onto in our minds is not the same person who ultimately hurt us. The person who hurtContinueContinue reading “Illusions: Letting Go of Someone Who Never Existed Yet Still Exists”
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