More Than a Tombstone: Legacy in the Present Tense

When we think of legacy, we often picture it as something monumental—a grand achievement, a lasting impact that outlives us. For many, it’s tied to the end of life, to what remains after we’re gone. But I’ve come to understand that legacy is much more fluid. It’s not just what we leave behind when weContinueContinue reading “More Than a Tombstone: Legacy in the Present Tense”

Solar Return 46: Threadbare Elegy

The profound nature of art and truth is that what’s meant to be about someone else often feels like it’s written just for us, holding a mirror to our own soul. That’s the gift of true connection—even the darker ones we share as souls. I think that’s part of what agape love truly is: notContinueContinue reading “Solar Return 46: Threadbare Elegy”

When Giving God the Glory Hurt Me—And Taught Me to Love Better

For a long time, I struggled with the phrase, “Give God the glory.” My mother used to say it constantly, especially during moments when I longed for her gratitude. As her full-time caregiver, I poured myself into serving her, yet she never thanked me—only God. It drove me crazy. Why couldn’t she see my efforts?ContinueContinue reading “When Giving God the Glory Hurt Me—And Taught Me to Love Better”

Caregiving as a Calling: My Experience as a Primary Caregiver

When I first left my career to become a primary caregiver, I thought I understood the journey ahead. My background in psychology and my natural inclination as an empath made me feel like I was well-equipped to take on the emotional and mental challenges of caring for loved ones. What I didn’t fully grasp atContinueContinue reading “Caregiving as a Calling: My Experience as a Primary Caregiver”